Friends' Ex-Boyfriend (my bestfriend) - B5

dknw4ever · #1 10-17-2009, 09:57 PM

Hey. If you didn't know I'm Deja, and I'm in the advice section so of course I need you guys' advice and/or opinions. So my best friend Ryan, as in my signature, likes me and he is really feeling me, which is beyond obvious because he constantly gives me hugs, he always around me, he look out for me, and he makes sure that I'm in a good mood all the time. He always makes me laugh, he constantly puts a smile on my face, he's real with me, and he is really, truly, my best friend. But the only problems are... he dated two of my friends. One of my besties Dejza and the girl I call sister, Janai. Janai knows he likes me, but Dejza doesn't. I honestly think that Dejza still has feelings for him but I'm unsure. So, I'm like so confused because I lot of my friends say I be mad flirting with him, but he hasn't asked me out because he knows I'll say no because of my friend, and he doesn't want to ruin our friendship.

lifesabeech · #2 10-18-2009, 12:21 AM

so do you like back?? i reckon you should see how she reacts when you mention him....evn try saying sum1 sed he likes you infront of her and see how she reacts its pretty easy to see if sum1s not over them

dknw4ever · #3 10-18-2009, 05:12 AM

i really don't know. i try not to think of him in that sort of way though.
and i'll say that.
thanks.

richlesy · #4 10-28-2009, 05:50 PM

i was wit u till u said he dated 2 of ur friends and that u didnt know if ur friend still liked him.U need 2 ask her and if she tells u no then its okay 2 continue.U shuldnt sneak behind her cuz that makes things worse and creates tention.

LatinaChica14 · #5 11-01-2009, 03:23 PM

well if i were u i wud sit both of ur friends dwn n tell them ur really feelin ryan bt u dnt wna go wit em bc they been wit em. n ask them if they wud hav a prob if u tlked to em n tell dem to b dead honest wit u

dknw4ever · #6 11-03-2009, 09:03 AM

thanks for the advice yall.